23 September 2008
The Angry Black Man Named Daniel
Posted by
Esha
under:
HERstory .
I try to be nice to people, I truly do. It takes a lot to push my buttons, but when they’re pushed, it’s not a pretty sight. Such is the case yesterday when I went to read my email and saw this:
From: Daniel Wxxxxx <dandxxxx40@gmail.com>
Date: Monday, September 22, 2008, 10:08 AM
All alone are we!!!! Dumb bitch!!! and u gonna stay alone and suffer with ur arthritis pains for the rest of ur miserable life u dumb bitch!!!
A bit harsh don’t you think? You’d think this was someone who had previously been on the receiving end of my wrath. You’d think this was possibly a man I cheated on. You’d think he was someone who I dated for a long period of time and didn’t want to be bothered anymore. What you wouldn’t think is that this was a person who I only hung out with once and had a handful of conversations, and after those, didn’t feel that he was my type, so I cut off communication with him.
Here ladies and gentleman is the epitome of a bitter man. It’s funny, before reading this email, I had no idea that he would even think of talking to someone in that tone or manner. I guess it’s a good thing that I didn’t go any further in communicating with him. I guess when he did hang out that ONE time, I was hanging out with his ‘agent’, the person that he wanted me to see.
What’s even more sad is that this is a person who claimed to be so mature despite his age of 26/27. The only signs of maturity present was the fact that he looked as if he was 40. I guess he must have lived a hard life. In any event, Yashieka, told me not to reply, but the fact that he had the audacity to bring up a health issue I’ve been dealing with throughly pissed me off!
So here’s my reply:
You dumb tall looking mf’er. First of all, I’d rather be alone than to walk around in public with a man who obviously can’t dress himself in the morning and lives in a basement apartment. What do I look like entertaining the idea of being around someone who professes that they’re ‘mature’ for their age, and who still can’t a hold a conversation or follow simple directions like a 19 yr old? Negro please. The only thing that shows maturity is your looks. You look as if you’re 40 yrs old, and yeah, that’s not a good look!www.menaintshit.com, you will be written about there..
Btw, your fat sloppy ass can spare to loose about 30 lbs. So fucking spare me your bitter man tirade, I’m sure you can find another ‘notch’ for your dating belt elsewhere.
Oh yeah, feel free to read my blog
Needless to say, of course, I never received a reply.
Now some may say I was too harsh, but his initial email was very uncalled for, IMHO. But in any event, hopefully when boredom strikes, he’ll think twice about emailing me his hate filled spam.
9 Comments so far...
introspectivegoddess
Says:
23 September 2008 at 1:55 pm.
How did you meet this dude? How is he gonna come at you for being alone where the fuck did that come from…sounds like hes more upset that he is alone. He’s fat looks 40 when he is only 26 and he’s a punk cuz he sent you an email..calling you a b*tch???
Damn why is it always the ones who are toe up and sloppy looking, that want to have the audacity to come out of they mouth with some disrespectful shit. Nigga you already overweight and unnattractive the least you could have going for yourself is a damn personality but on top of being physically unsightly you got the nerve to be a sociopathic a$$hole too!!!! I mean WHAT THE F*CK, GET THE F*CK OUT OF HERE WIT DAT BULLSH*T!!!!
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introspectivegoddess
Says:
23 September 2008 at 8:16 pm.
Oh my gosh this sooo reminds me of a situation of a dude I met online…he has completely soiled any chance for me to holla at a fat guy…….Dude lied about how he looked we talked for over a month before I met him he never said anything about his weight even after I told him I was full figured myself just a hot ass mess….needless to say he was just unattractive in general.
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Keyshia
Says:
24 September 2008 at 7:05 am.
Wow! Now thats a man with alot of issues! He needs help
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Shieka
Says:
24 September 2008 at 8:08 am.
It’s crazy how some people would go to extremes because they are rejected. You don’t always get what you want! Bow out gracefully…say it’s cool, and press on with your life. There’s plenty more fish in the sea dude! Of Course none would compare to ESHA, lol..all I’m saying is, it’s going to be ok if someone doesn’t like you…*sigh*
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Keyshia Reply:
September 24th, 2008 at 9:15 am
Hmm … I say we should explore this more. Since everything is explained psychologically nowadays, maybe we can explain all this by exploring the idea that he might have been dropped on his head as a child. Im jus sayin’ …
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LAMONT
Says:
24 September 2008 at 2:51 pm.
Obama needs to make you Secretary of Defense..lol
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J. McFly
Says:
24 September 2008 at 10:25 pm.
I don’t think you were too harsh but I do think he was out of line. Unless a woman killed your mother, you do not talk to her like that. Unlike the name of your site suggest all men don’t fit that profile. Check out my site if you don’t agree.
-JM
MrSwagger.com
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judy
Says:
1 October 2008 at 11:45 pm.
that us hilarious, i dont think you were out of line at all. u was articulate and eloquent… kept is 150%
like us nyers are born to do! hahahaha
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Esha Reply:
September 23rd, 2008 at 5:45 pm
girl, we met online about a month ago…after the initial face to face, i knew we werent compatible..so there was no need for any further contact, especially since he just joked around too much with my name, pronouncing it wrong on purpose, thinking he was being cute and funny…NEGATIVE. even after I repeatedly asked him NOT to do that..he couldn’t follow simple requests…
And the email was so f*cking random!?! I’m like..uh…”did i just read what I think I read?”..and then he had the nerve to make light of my health issues??? Negro, karma is a bitch!
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