2 October 2008
What would you do?
Posted by
Yashieka
under:
Misc.; Open Discussions .
Below is a clip of two women fighting over a man…
Hilarious right?
It still amazes me how some women react when the “OTHER” woman reaches out and says “I’ve been sleeping with your man, or your man has been trying to holler at me, etc” or something else a long those lines. Now, depending on how the conversation goes down, you can do a couple of things, curse the other woman out, go find her and beat her up (yep, this still happens), ignore her and support your man, or listen to what she has to say (usually the last thing women do). Keep in mind ladies, we don’t always know what the man is telling the other woman, I think we owe it to ourselves to listen. I know it may be hard especially if the other woman is calling you a b*tch. So my question to you is:
If another female reached out to you and said “your boyfriend’s been sleeping with me, “hollering” at me, etc, what would you do?
3 Comments so far...
introspectivegoddess
Says:
2 October 2008 at 1:28 pm.
I would listen to what she had to say. As long as she was respectful I dont see any reason not to. I have been in a situation like this where I was telling a female that the guy she was seeing for about 4 months had been dealing with me for about 3 to 4 years. At first she came at me on some you need to move on BS….but later when I told her that he was still calling me she listened to what I said and asked some questions. It realy didnt change anything because I’m guessing he ran interference and she believed him…but by then I was gone she could deal with his BS not me.
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OG
Says:
2 October 2008 at 2:55 pm.
Well that has happened to me I don’t have to say what I would hypothetically do. I found out abut my ex-husband’s side piece on the side. We talked, she tried to stir up some drama about I’m not gonna tell you what he promised me it will make you feel bad. I said oh no need too I can see everything you said to each other in the conversation archives. Oh she paused; I don’t think she was ready to talk to a real woman. See I didn’t have NO beef with her, she ain’t jump the broom with me HE DID!!
I have also been the other girl, never was interested in calling NO wives or girlfriends or none of that. However I always said if they called me I would say you know what YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY right and cease and desist with their husband/bf immediately.
Thank god those days are behind me, I do remember a time that I would brace myself when a blocked number would pop up on my cell phone.
Ok I’m going back to my lurker’s corner. BTW I LOVE your blog!
-OG
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Keyshia Reply:
October 3rd, 2008 at 1:17 am
Same here. I’d listen to what she had to say, do my own investigations and then make the appropriate decision.
The last thing I’d ever do on God’s green earth is fight over a man. And if she was disrespectful, I’d still not fight her because then, none of us would be the better person. Walking away preserves alot of dignity and at the same time, you get to keep a clean conscience about the whole thing.
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